#8: My Happiness
Whenever someone says that they don’t want children, certain people are always so quick to jump down their throats and tell them that they are being selfish. In recent years, the word “selfish” has become a dirty word… A word that has the connotation of someone being lazy, rude, and even unloving.
But just because someone is choosing to be selfish doesn’t mean that they are all of those things. Sometimes the selfish decision is the most appropriate decision for someone to make. Resenting motherhood and/or your child is a recipe for disaster… If you can, you may as well avoid the situation.