No Fear
Your spouse may be employing emotional blackmail against you, convincing you that you should feel guilty or ashamed if you try to leave the relationship because you’ll lose what little you have left to spend on yourself. You may even fear being without any financial resources whatsoever.
However, the reality is that your happiness does not depend solely on how much money you have, but rather on how you choose to live your life. A strong person can make his or her own choices about where to direct his or her energies, so that he or she becomes happy regardless of the amount of cash he or she has.