Sad
Sometimes even when you aren’t thinking of only money it can seen that way. When people fall in love with someone who happens to be wealthy they will automatically be seen as a gold digger. This is sad for the few people who actually do love their spouses. Maybe they have had problems with people doing things like this in the past.
Maybe that is why they keep their guard up. It is sad that this marriage failed because of other people’s misconceptions. Who knows what the next person she will be like? They may not love her at all. It is a shame you had to get divorced but it is better than being constantly accused of something that isn’t true.