Passive-Aggressive Pillows
Passive aggressiveness most certainly is not the ideal way to deal with anything or communicate with your partner. People use passive-aggressiveness because it allows them to work out their negative feelings without actually expressing them verbally or getting into ugly confrontations.
Unfortunately, this backfires because the negativity is still there, even if it’s not talked about. Some people feel more comfortable striking out subtly rather than actually talking about their issues, but it is incredibly unhealthy. In this wife’s case, she decided that because her husband irritated her, he’d have to suffer with another six throw pillows on their bed.