Nothing Is Permanent
Lies don’t last long in the shadows. The truth will always come out eventually. While in a relationship with James, this lady was having an affair with a guy called Jared. James was fortunate that the truth came out at the right time for him.
Maybe she went through her phone’s contacts and selected the first “J.” There is nothing wrong with telling someone you dislike them for who they are. If you want a piece of the action, you can’t always get it.