Only I Can Feel Feelings!
So, how do you turn down a second date with a “nice guy?” You can’t be blunt with him since he’s going to take it as a personal attack. You can’t beat around the bush either since he’ll blame you for not speaking your mind. It’s best to just tell him to have a good day and pray that he doesn’t fly off the handle.

Oops. Too late. Being real about your feelings is apparently too much for “nice guys” to handle. Someone who smiles and laughs at your jokes doesn’t mean they want to do the deed with you. Maybe they’re trying to enjoy the date, but in the end, they felt no real connection. Good riddance.