#32: There is No “I” in Team
The first thing to know about being in a relationship is that they take work, and sometimes you might need to put your own needs aside for the sake of the relationship. It might not sound like the easiest or most fun thing to do, but if you want to be in a successful relationship, this is what it takes.
And when there is someone in the relationship who isn’t willing to work on themselves or put the needs of the relationship first, it becomes painfully obvious to the therapist. If you’re not willing to work on anything, why come to the session in the first place? You’re not fooling anyone…