#33: Take It to the Grave
On another post, we saw someone who said that if a friend is hurt an in need of consultation, you have to say whatever it takes to consult her, even if that means lashing out on her ex-boyfriend and saying some things you might regret saying if they get back together.
If that does happen, you might find yourself in an awkward situation. So, this person adds another important rule: neither of you will ever reveal to the ex what was said behind closed doors. That’s a smart rule! There’s no reason why he should know, anyway. Whatever was said is between the two of you.